What Is Pro Se Divorce?

A pro se divorce means that you represent yourself in your divorce case without hiring an attorney. In Latin, "pro se" simply means "for oneself." This approach is entirely legal and commonly used by couples who have relatively simple divorces and want to avoid the cost of legal fees.

In Wisconsin, pro se divorce is an option as long as you are willing to handle the paperwork, court procedures, and decision-making on your own. You and your spouse will need to agree on key issues such as child custody, division of assets, debts, and support. If you cannot agree, the judge will make those decisions for you, just as in any other contested divorce.

The main advantage of a pro se divorce is cost. You may only need to pay court filing fees (usually between $150-$200), making it one of the most affordable divorce options available. However, this also comes with increased responsibility: you must fill out legal forms correctly, understand procedural rules, and present your case clearly in front of a judge.

A common alternative to pro se divorce is divorce mediation. While still far more affordable than hiring attorneys, mediation provides guidance from a neutral third party who helps you and your spouse reach a fair agreement. You retain control over the outcome, but you're not navigating the process alone.

In more complex situations, such as those involving minor children, contested assets, or financial support, going fully pro se may not be advisable. Errors in forms or process can delay the divorce or result in unintended consequences. Many couples begin pro se, then realize they benefit from expert help to finalize their agreement.

Here in Appleton and throughout the Fox Valley, Classic Mediation offers a middle ground: you stay in control of your divorce but receive experienced support, guidance, and document preparation assistance to ensure everything is done right.

Thinking About Filing Pro Se?

Before filing on your own, consider whether a mediator could save you time, stress, and avoid costly mistakes. At Classic Mediation, we help self-representing individuals in Appleton and across Wisconsin complete their divorce confidently. Contact us today to learn how we can support your pro se process without the high costs of litigation.